Friday, July 30, 2010

Grief Observed

Elise is taking a biology class this summer. She works in the morning and goes to college from 5:30 - 10:00. Although it makes for a full day and even though she does NOT care for science (she just like her mother!), she has enjoyed getting to know the people in her class. Andrea has been her favorite. She is a 53 year old Black woman who keeps Elise constantly laughing. I know. Andrea called Elise last week and I heard them interact on the phone. They were like typical college girls, complaining about their assignment and gossiping about the "Mr. Mc Dreamy" that is in their class. When I asked Elise who it was that had her laughing non-stop, she told me about Andrea.

Last night the college security knocked on the classroom door and asked to see Andrea. They were there to deliver devastating news. News no one should ever have to hear. Not ever. But especially not in a hallway of a college.

They told Andrea that her 15 year old daughter commited suicide. Elise said she heard the cries of gut-wrenching anguish and ran to the hall to find out what had happened. Andrea was curled up on the floor. The sounds, Elise said, were sounds she never wants to hear again. Such raw pain. Such overwhelming grief.

It has made an impact on Elise. Just minutes before, they were laughing together at the lab table. And Andrea was talking about her daughter Katy. In an instant, in a breath, in a blink, life changed forever for her friend.

Lord, please be with Andrea. Wrap her in Your arms of love and hold her close.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Repairs


Car breaks down...you bring it to the shop.
Appliances break...you call the repair man.
But where do you go when your heart is shattered?

These last few months have been very difficult ones for me for reasons too numerous or too personal to write about here. Many days I have just been so jarred by life's circumstances and many days I have felt like just packing it in...feeling too wounded to face one more battle. Sometimes unseen wounds are the most devastating to handle. We look okay to everyone - can even fake it for awhile - but oh, the ache! I know you've felt like that too. It's part of life.

That's why I want to share this devotion with you that I read this morning. It was like applying the best, most comforting salve to my battered and bruised heart.

My child, all My children suffer "breakdowns" in their walls from one time or another. Those gaps in your armor where sin has broken through, those tears in your heart that thoughtless actions ripped away, those tornadoes that ripped through your life without warning - I've seen them all, My child. But I am the Repairer of Broken Walls - and that includes your heart. Restoration is my specialty. I'm always gentle but thorough. Give me your heart daily. I'll do the rest.

Oh, love that will not let me go

I rest my weary soul in Thee.


Tuesday, July 27, 2010

One Little "Did"

All the Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas
Layin' in the sun,
Talkin' bout the things
They woulda-coulda-shoulda done...
But those Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas
All ran away and hid
From one little did.

I love this poem by Shel Silverstein. I've been thinking a lot lately about the topic of this poem, thanks to my brother-in-law, Harv. He wrote an equally magnificent poem on this topic, and together (Harv and I) are looking at the many ways our "woulda-coulda-shouldas" keep us locked to our past in unhealthy ways. Today, as I read more about Rahab in the novella by Francine Rivers, I began to think of the wonderful way she chose to make a break from her past. It was a purposeful, deliberate choice to do.

Rahab was from Jericho. She was a prostitute. She was a Canaanite. But when she met the two Jewish spies, none of that mattered. She took a huge leap of faith. She chose to sever her ties to her past when she dangled the scarlet cord from her window. She chose to follow God and His people. And because of that choice, she not only became the great-great-grandmother of King David, but she is listed as one of the great heroes of faith in Hebrews.

What would have happened if she let the moment pass? As the walls of Jericho fell, would her last thoughts been, "I should have listened"? Or "I would have chosen to forsake my past if I only had a little more time"? Or "I could have been enjoying life, but instead I'm lying here in the rubble of the wall!"

Praise God that she was a courageous woman of action. What about us? Somedays it's just so much easier to sit in the wading pool of regret, just wishing we would have made different choices, isn't it? How about making an "I DID" choice? Need a power verse for this mission? Try Joshua 1:9. Let me hear from you about your "I did" day, ok?


Saturday, July 24, 2010

She Finally Bloomed!

It finally happened...Lois, the Corpse Flower, bloomed! All of Houston can finally breathe a deep, collective sigh of relief. Or not. Remember, this flower packs a wallop of a smell!

When Lois refused to bloom, the museum closed her to the public viewing for a little R and R. It worked, because this morning , there she was in all of her...um...punguntcy! (Did I just made up a new word? It didn't show up on spell check.)

The gift store was selling t-shirts that said, "My friend went to see the corpse flower and all I got was this stinkin' t-shirt!"

One sort of sad/funny story was reported in today's news. If you've ever been to the Houston Museum, you may have toured the butterfly center. It's gorgeous. Many people have social events and even weddings at the Cockrell Butterfly Center. Well, one bride booked the center a year ago and today was her wedding. Only problem being, the corpse flower is on exhibit in the Cockrell Center.Yup! That flower is right smack dab in the same place as the wedding! Can you even imagine having a wedding with the smell of dead flesh wafting through the air? (Ohhh, I can hear the pundits minds beginning to come alive!) Ah, life! Ya just have to laugh sometimes, don't ya??

Friday, July 23, 2010

Three Daisies


Happy Birthday, Kare!
XOXO

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Staying Positive!

Here's a fun way to stay positive...I'm off to the bathroom counter right now!!!

Monday, July 19, 2010

Matthew 10:39

Sparrows. They are cute little birds, aren't they? I think that Christians like sparrows because Jesus used sparrows as an example of how lovingly we are watched over and provided for by our Heavenly Father.

Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?

Yet not one of them will fall to the ground without the will of your Father.

Matthew 10:39

A while back, this pictorial was making its way through the e-mail circuit. Maybe you received it. I filed it away with the idea of using it at a later date. Well, today I'm sharing it with myself. Today I need to be reminded that I am a child of the King. I need to be reminded that God has always provided for my needs and that He always will. My job is not to worry.

Here is the e-mail that I think perfectly illustrates how even the birds are cared for...



A photgrapher noticed a group of birds that were resting at the side of the road. One of them was hit and injured by a passing car. The remarkable series of photos that follow tell a very tender story of love and loss.


The mate of the injured bird flies over to be of help.


He realizes that his mate is gone and seems to send out a message of grief.

He attentively stays by her side and seems to be crying over her.


The photographer said the bird lingered by her side
and then flew to a nearby tree where he seemed to send out a long, mournful cry.


I don't know what kind of birds these are (love birds?), but don't they illustrate the words of Jesus in a fresh and new and tender way? I can't help but sing, "His Eye Is On The Sparrow"!




Sunday, July 18, 2010

John Piper




This is Pastor John Piper. He is a Baptist minister in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I am drawn to his words. Why? First of all, he is a Calvinist. He boldly preaches God's Word, not based on feelings but based on fact. Secondly, His style of writing appeals to me because he has a love of literature and the romance of words. His writing tends to run deep...it's not for the faint-of-heart. I really have to challenge myself to plunge deeper when I read his books. It often takes me a lot (!!!) longer to hash through something written by Piper. But, oh, it is so very worth it! He is also the author of one of my all time favorite quotes: God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him. Today I was unable to attend church, so I read this devotion written by John Piper. I will post it here. Few of you, I imagine, will take the time to read it. It's long. It's deep. But trust me, if you are in need of solid encouragement, you will not be disaapointed...infact, you will be emboldened by the reality of what we have because of the God we love.


Friday, July 16, 2010

Me And My Knee


Today I went to the doctor. It's been a week of R.I.C.E. without any improvement (rest, ice, compression, and elevation). She said it appears to be a torn ligament, but she referred me to an orthopedic doctor. I also asked her to take a look at my right ear. She said I need to go back to Dr. Klinke. Bill also went to the doctor. He woke up with an eye infection (blocked tear ducts). We must have looked like quite the couple as we entered the office - me limping, holding on to Bill's arm for dear life, as Bill, with his one good eye, found us a place to sit in the waiting room.


I wonder if people thought we had a fight with each other - I scratched his eyes so he hit me in the knee!
We are now both on medication - steroids for me and eye drops for him. I'm also in a knee brace.
After I tutored, we had a family pool night. Ah, it felt so relaxing!
Elise went to Red Box and picked up a movie, so soon we will have a "Girl's Just Wanna Have Fun" night together. Great beginning to the weekend!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Waiting With Baited Breath

This weekend, Houston is giving new meaning to the phrase, "THAT STINKS!"
Below are two examples of the Corpse Flower. Apparently, it is very rare to see this flower in bloom. It has only happened about 28 times in the USA. And to borrow a well-known phrase from Paul Harvey, "And now for the rest of the story..."



Corpse One


Corpse Two


This flower is scheduled to bloom in Houston at any moment and it is causing a huge media following in our city. Because no one knows exactly when the big event may occur, the museum is now open 24/7. People are camping out, changing work schedules, planning their vacations (!) around this plant and waiting with baited breath, all for the title of "I Saw The Corpse Flower Bloom!"


People, people!!! Haven't you heard???? This flower is called a CORPSE flower for a reason!!! IT SMELLS LIKE A ROTTING CORPSE FOR PETE'S SAKE!!!!!


Call me crazy, but seeing and smelling this bloom isn't high on my "Bucket List" of things to do. Trust me on this one, I think this one is better appreciated from afar!


I've been learning (along with the rest of Houstonians...this thing is getting a lot of news coverage!) that this plant hails from the rain forest of Sumatra. Why the smell? To attract beetles and flies that pollinate the flower.

Our flower here in Houston is called Lois.

So , if any of you have a hankering to get a good whiff of rotting flesh, hop in your car, visit Lois, and then come by our house for some ice tea and a breath of fresh air! Any takers???


Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Garage Sales and Feeling Inadequate

Garage Sales...you either love them or detest them. I happen to enjoy a good garage sale. I like rummaging through other peoples junk AND I like to have a garage sale and sell my old stuff. (Oh, that brings to mind a garage sale story I'll have to blog about...maybe tomorrow!).

Speaking of garage sales, did you read today about a woman that bought a little pin at a garage sale? It looked like a blinged out Lebron James jersey...like a little rhinestone trinket. Anyway, it turned out to be REAL DIAMONDS (!) and worth a lot more than the $5.oo she paid for it.

So why am I writing about garage sales? It's because of what I read today in the book I'm reading. Here's the quote:

"Satan delights in our feelings of inadequacy. He wants to help us stay there. He wants us to go to Bible study, learn the deep truths of God, leave all encouraged, and then come home and have a complete meltdown and question, 'why doesn't Jesus work for me?'" ~ Lysa TerKeurst, from Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl

Have you ever felt that way? I certainly have...more often than I care to admit. And the quote reminded me of a story that was told to me many years ago about the day Satan decided to have a garage sale. The story goes something like this:

Satan decided to have a garage sale. Like everyone he got out all his stuff, put price tags on it, and lay it all out on some tables. People came by to see what he had for sale. One table was filled with stuff like Pride, Envy, Greed, etc. All of Satan’s most familiar tools were there. The prices were high, but after all, these were the most famous weapons from Satan’s personal arsenal!

But off to one side there was a table with only one old, worn-out item on it. It wasn’t named, and the price tag was outrageous. “What tool is this, and why is it so expensive?” one customer asked.

Satan answered, “That is my most powerful secret weapon. It works where nothing else will, and it operates by stealth. Everybody recognizes these old tools, like Pride, Deceit, and Greed. But I can attack someone with this tool, and they will never even know it was me. Its name is Discouragement. When everything else has failed, just when someone is on the verge of fulfilling God’s purpose, I can launch this at them, like a submarine torpedo, and it goes straight to their heart without them ever knowing. It destroys their hope, their faith, and their joy, and they give up on everything God has in store for them. And because it works by stealth, they usually blame themselves and God. They never think to blame me at all.

“It’s the perfect weapon!” Satan said.

I often remind myself of this story. I have to. I'm one that becomes easily discouraged. That's when I tell myself to sing that old hymn, "Turn your eyes upon Jesus. Look FULL in His wonderful face! And the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace."

And I also remind myself of God's promise from His word: In this world you will have many troubles, but FEAR NOT! I have overcome the world.

Isn't it wonderful to be His child?



Monday, July 12, 2010

Friends, Skype, and Tiger Balm

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, and never say a word, and walk away thinking that was the best conversation you ever had.


So very thankful for my wonderful friend, Alice. Thursday night I could not sleep. I had a migraine and had slept most of the day, so when it was time to actually sleep, I just wasn't tired. I got out of bed and headed toward the recliner with computer in hand. There, in the dark, I started checking out my email but kept thinking, "Alice must be up...I sure wish I could talk to her!". And then, in the dark, out of no where, this most welcoming sign appeared on the computer:





That meant that Alice saw that I was online. Up popped this question, "What's wrong, Joey? Can't you sleep?" Oh, hooray! I called Alice (who lives in Amsterdam!) via Skype and we talked the night away! If you don't have Skype, get it! It's FREE! You can talk via the microphone on your computer. If you have a camera, you can see each other. Simply wonderful!!!


I finally went to bed at 6 a.m. Woke up at 9;15 and went to water aerobics. Quickly changed and left to do errands at 11:20. David went to a movie while Elise and I headed over to the college to sign her up for a summer class. While walking from one building to the next, my knee started to ache. Soon the pain was intolerable. By time we got home, all I could do was prop it up, saturate it with ice, and cancel my tutoring class.


By time Bill got home, I pleaded with him to scour any and all medicine bottles in search of pain medication. He found something that was prescribed for me back in January when I had so many problems with my ears. It had codeine and the directions said I could take two every six hours. It took the edge off - barely! Next, Bill had to pillage through the under-the-sink stuff in search for Tiger Balm. Alice gave me some from her trip to Thailand. I rubbed it all over my knee. This helped me make it to midnight. Bill gave me two more pain killers and I made it through the night. Woke up at 7 a.m. with THE worst headache. Soon I was shaking and sweating and realizing I was the only one downstairs. Everyone else was sound asleep upstairs.(I have found that there is one thing worse than being sick and that is being sick all by yourself!) After vomiting, a little relief came. Long story short, I have spent the whole weekend in bed, trying to stay off of my knee.

I'm hoping the daylight brings relief and a better week!



Thursday, July 8, 2010

My Poor Petunias

Petunias In Better Days


Shhh....can you hear that sound? It's my petunias. They're groaning! Poor babies. It's been soooo rainy here lately and I think they are experiencing the dreaded "root rot"! I hope not! I hope they revive and survive!

When I see things like this in nature, it always reminds me of Roman 8:19-22 where Paul talks about creation groaning. I think of this verses when I see pictures of the beaches in Florida -where our family has frequently vacationed - now covered with oil. I thought of those verses after Katrina, when the beautifully majestic oak trees were uprooted. And I think of those verses as I witness my petunias drowning and my gardenias wilting. Creation groans.


I like that bit of personification that Paul uses. It makes it quite clear that when man first disobeyed, there were consequences to the disobedience. Consequences for man: consequences that put ugly marks on all of creation.


But that's not the end of the story! God has given to man a glorious promise of redemption. A glorious promise that - someday- all things will be made right. All of creation will be restored to what it should have been like in the first place. Man will be without sin - restored and living forever in a restored world where creation no longer groans. We won't groan and petunias won't either! What a glorious hope we have! Thank you, Father!


* I haven't done this verse justice...it is so rich in meaning! If you want to read some good commentary on this verse, take a few minutes to ponder the thoughts at PBC.org The commentary I read was entitled, "Eager Anticipation".

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Recently NASA has been in the news. Apparently our President is shutting down any space explorations. In fact, if we want to continue to be involved with the International Space Station, we now have no way of getting up there...we would have to hitch a ride from the Russians!

This is a quote from CHARLES BOLDEN, NASA ADMINISTRATOR: Perhaps foremost, he (Obama) wanted me to find a way to reach out to the Muslim world and engage much more with dominantly Muslim nations to help them feel good about their historic contribution to science and engineering.

Excuse me???? I don't want to get political on this blog, but something is REALLY wrong with this picture!!!!

Well, I'll just leave that little hot button alone and write something more edifying about "nasa" that I learned in a devotional by Dale Vander Veen. He was writing about how difficult it was to learn Hebrew while he was at Calvin Seminary. He had to learn Greek as well, but that wasn't as difficult. The reason Greek was easier for him to master was because many English words have Greek origins. For example "hardia" is Greek for our word "heart". They sort of sound similar.

While Hebrew was harder to learn, every once and a while a word would be easier to remember and learn. One such word was the word "nasa". In Hebrew it means "to lift, to carry or bear"....sort of like the rockets from NASA "lift" off. This word is used by David in Psalm 32:1 where David writes, "Blessed are those whose transgressions are (nasaed) forgiven."

For the believer, these sins have been "carried" or "lifted" by Jesus. And he carried them as far as "the east is from the west" (Psalm 103:12). Those sins aren't floating around in outer space. They aren't stashed up on Jupiter or Neptune. Those sins are gone. Vaporized. Vanished.

Only the Son of God could "nasa" our sins and forget them. Now that's a "nasa" our Muslims friends may like to find out about.........just a thought.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Let's Hear It For Holland!!!!


Go, Holland!!!

Today I am writing in orange in honor of the Netherland's tremendous World Cup win today!!! Like Bill always says, "If you ain't Dutch, you ain't much!"

CONGRATULATIONS, HOLLAND!!


Sunday, July 4, 2010

Happy Declaration Day!

These are the 56 signatures that appear on our Declaration of Independence. By signing this declaration, they were traitors to their king. They could have been killed for signing this document. Below is a brief sketch of what happened to these men after taking such a courageous stand.



"I am well aware of the toil and blood and treasure it will cost us to maintain this declaration, and support and defend these states. Yet through all the gloom I see the rays of ravishing light and glory. I can see that the end is worth all the means. This is our day of deliverance."
John Adams


Have you ever wondered what happened to the 56 men who signed the Declaration of Independence? British subjects at the time, they advocated the overthrow of the government for a free and independent America. It was, in fact, our first Civil War. These rebels signed the Declaration of Independence and pledged their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor to their new country.

Seventeen fought in the ensuing war. Thomas Nelson was a colonel in the Second Virginia Regiment and William Whipple served with the New Hampshire militia. Oliver Wolcott led the Connecticut regiments sent for the defense of New York and commanded a brigade of militia that took part in the defeat of General Burgoyne. Caesar Rodney was a Major General in the Delaware militia and John Hancock was the same in the Massachusetts militia.

Five of the signers were captured by the British during the war although only Richard Stockton of New Jersey is said to have been imprisoned solely for having signed the Declaration of Independence. He died after a year after he was released. Colonel George Walton was wounded and captured at the Battle of Savannah and was exchanged for a British naval captain. Captains Edward Rutledge, Thomas Heyward, and Arthur Middleton were all captured during the siege of Charleston in 1780 and exchanged a year later, too late to protect their property which had been looted as had the properties of Hall, Clymer, Walton, Hooper and Gwinnett. Gwinnett later died in a duel with a political rival in Georgia in 1777.

Thomas Lynch of South Carolina was arrested in 1780 and held on board a British prison ship for a year. During his imprisonment, his plantation was sacked and his slaves (more than 130) were taken and believed sold to sugar plantations in Jamaica. Twelve others had their homes ransacked and burned. Most of the homes that were destroyed were in the South at a time when the British had adopted a "scorched earth" policy against the colonies in an effort to gain the support of southern loyalists.

Carter Braxton of Virginia, a wealthy planter and trader, saw his ships swept from the seas by the British Navy and, after making several bad investments, was forced to sell his home and properties to pay his debts. Colonel Thomas McKean of Delaware was so hounded by the British that he was forced to move his family almost constantly. He served in the Congress without pay, and his family was kept in hiding.

Legend has it when Thomas Nelson Jr was told the British General Cornwallis had taken over his home for British headquarters, he replied, "Blow the damn thing down." Nelson's house is still standing at Yorktown and there are cannonballs embedded in its east wall.

Francis Lewis had his home and properties destroyed. His home on Long Island was destroyed by British calvary in the fall of 1776. Mrs. Lewis was captured by the British but was eventually released in exchange for a British officer's wife. Mrs. Lewis died two years after her release. Altogether, eleven signers had their homes and property destroyed.

John Hart was driven from his wife's bedside as she was dying. Their 13 children fled for their lives. His fields and his gristmill were laid to waste. For more than a year he lived in forests and caves, returning home to find his wife dead and his children vanished. A few weeks later he died of exhaustion and a broken heart. Morris and Livingston suffered similar fates.

Abraham Clark of New Jersey had two of his sons captured by the British during the war. The son of John Witherspoon was killed at the Battle of Germantown.

What kind of men were these 56 rebels who signed the Declaration of Independence? Twenty-two were lawyers and nine were judges. Stephen Hopkins had been Governor of Rhode Island. Eighteen of the signers were merchants or businessmen, 14 were farmers, and four were doctors. Although two others had been clergy previously, John Witherspoon of New Jersey was the only active clergyman to attend. He wore his pontifical to the sessions.

These were men of means, interested in the well being of their fellow countrymen. 42 had served in their States legislature. They were well educated men. Seven had attended Harvard, four each at Yale and William & Mary, and three at Princeton. John Witherspoon was the president of Princeton and George Wythe was a professor at William & Mary. Nine of the signers were immigrants, two were brothers, two were cousins, and one was an orphan. They were slave owners and duelists, men who were good in business and men who were not. In short, they were ordinary human beings, thrust into an extraordinary situation. They put their lives on the line to preserve the country they loved.

After the Revolution, 13 of the signers went on to become governors, and 18 served in their state legislatures. Sixteen became state and federal judges. Seven became members of the United States House of Representatives, and six became United States Senators. James Wilson and Samuel Chase became Justices of the United States Supreme Court.Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, and Elbridge Gerry each became Vice President, and John Adams and Thomas Jefferson became President. The sons of signers John Adams and Benjamin Harrison also became Presidents.

Oddly enough, two of the men who signed the Declaration of Independence died on July 4th? U.S. Presidents John Adams and Thomas Jefferson died 50 years after the signing, to the day. President James Monroe also died on the 4th, but in 1831. On July 4, 1872, President Calvin Coolidge was born. July 4th became a legal holiday until 1941.

Roger Sherman, Robert Morris, Benjamin Franklin, George Clymer, James Wilson, and George Reed later signed the United States Constitution. The Declaration of Independence, along with the Constitution and the Bill of Rights, is on public display at the Rotunda of the National Archives. So, take a few minutes while enjoying your 4th of July Holiday and silently thank these patriots. It's not much to ask for the price they paid. Remember Freedom is never free!